Steve Whaley - 318 - "Whales"

Authors note -

As is our tradition, we post the Fraternal remembrances of the deceased first. It’s a Delta Pi page, and it’s dedicated to the memories of our brothers. Please feel free to add your remembrances of “Whales” below in the comments.
Dave D. - 351

I hope many brothers will join me in a contribution to Steve’s kids in his honor. Delta Pi always makes me proud in this regard with our commitment to the phrase, “til ya die”.

Steve was one of my early roommates in apt E. as well as Frawley. Too many good memories of those semesters to do justice to here. From “vote for me, I’m Elwood Harding”. to “Effy” to Whales passing out right in the middle of changing the tv station and spending the night on his face in the middle of the apt. The one-man demolition derby he conducted with his car in the parking lot was a thing of legend.

Over the years, we stayed in touch in that seamless Delta Pi way that might include years-long gaps between conversations. Whales matured and improved with age (Frawley…maybe not so much). As you can read in the obit: Whales went on to represent Delta Pi and his country admirably. He was a good man, who I will miss horribly.

No way Whales could smile, snicker or laugh, and not spread that joy to the room.

Wishing peace to all the 300’s who might have known him well. He was a “one and only” kinda brother.

‘Til we can lift the silver goblet together again, rest in peace Whales.

Steve Whaley - Obituary
June 17, 1962 - October 3, 2023

Of Teaneck, NJ - Steve Whaley, lovingly known as "Whales" by his friends, passed away peacefully on October 3, 2023, at the age of 61. He was born on June 17, 1962, in Summit, NJ, to the late Barbara Guest Whaley and the late Bruce Stephen Whaley Sr.

Steve, a quiet gentle soul, had a great sense of humor and a great laugh. He adored his family, his wife Pam, his children, Evan and Grace, his dog Jezebel, and his many friends. A lover of the ocean, Steve was a certified SCUBA diver and cherished the countless memories of family vacations spent at many different beaches. He loved soccer. He enjoyed the beautiful game every chance he got. He also liked to play golf, although his skills on the golf course were less than stellar, he was a good putter. Steve's favorite greeting was always "Kid. You?"

Steve is survived by his beloved wife of 31 years, Pamela Whaley, and their children, Evan Whaley and Grace Whaley. He is also survived by his mother, Jeanne Whaley, his sister, Donna Frimberger, and her husband Walt Frimberger, his brother, Gray Whaley, and his sister Carleen Hazelden and her husband Michael Hazelden. Steve is also survived by many nieces, nephews, cousins, his great niece and great nephews. He was preceded in death by his father, Bruce Stephen Whaley Sr., his sister, Sharon Franklin, his brother, Christopher Whaley, and mother, Barbara Guest.

After graduating from Sparta High School in Sparta, NJ, Steve continued his education at Bloomsburg University of Pennsylvania, where he earned his Bachelor of Science degree. Following his studies, Steve became a Marine. Steve's military service was marked by his dedication and achievements in the United States Marine Corps, where he earned the rank of First Lieutenant. He received numerous commendations for his exemplary service.
Steve dedicated 25 years of his life to Apollo Distribution in Fairfield, NJ, where he worked as the Warehouse Manager.

In addition to his professional accomplishments, Steve was actively involved in his community. He coached his children's youth soccer teams for many years and later became an umpire for the Teaneck youth soccer league.

A memorial service honoring Steve's life will be held from 12:00 noon until 3:00 pm on November 25th, 2023, at Sheridan's Lodge, located at 631 Limecrest Rd, Newton, NJ 07860. Please RSVP to Donna Frimberger at 973-219-0982.

In lieu of flowers, the family kindly requests that donations be made to an education fund for Steve and Pam's children. Contributions can be made to Go fund Me at the following link:
https://gofund.me/35c57d0c

Steve will be deeply missed by all who knew and loved him. His memory will forever be cherished in the hearts of his family and friends.